Perasaan...

Hm feeling is a nature...perasaan tu fitrah....and our feelings towards somebody is also a nature....we tend to "like" a person with a good manner, kind, beriman....and the list goes on...nothing wrong about it....the feelings come without being called or invited....and have no right or power to prevent it from appearing in our heart...but when it came by, we have 2 choices.The first one is to ignore it, or the 2nd one to "layan" the feelings itself. For the first choice, it is called "preventing is better than cure"...if we are not ready for all these stuffs or if we already have someone in our heart....this is exactly the right choice...but for the second choice, it depends on us...because once we choose to go deep into the feelings, yg mule2 suka tu akan jadi sayang....sooner or later akan lahirlah what we called..."cinta"...at that moment of time, kita xnampak ape2 dah....everything seems to look 'beyoutifool'....kerana cinta, yang pahit manis dirasa...n mcm2 lagi la rhyme2 lagu yg best2....Remaja & cinta ibarat lagu & irama...can never be separated...& i admit the fact that masa remaja ni lah perasaan tu mula tumbuh mekar mewangi di taman hati masing-masing....for those yg dah ade pengalaman tu....tau la mcmana rasanya kan...saat mule2 bersemi....


But then the question here is that, sejauh mana cinta yg kita puja tu adalah cinta yg betul?...just take a moment to think back, why do i love her or him? Kerana rupa ka? characteristic ka? harta? family? mungkin kerana dia baik? caring and loving? or just saje2....coz orang lain pun dah ade...maka aku pun perlula ade jugak...tak gitu? (just remember, it's not necessary that what most people do is the RIGHT thing..)...tepuk dada tanya hati, tanya perasaan, tanya diri...& the most crutial is to ask our iman....


If our answer is among the list, then i can say, that are not the true love...what if one fine day, our beloved one dah x cantik, x kaya, accident n cacat anggota...n mcm2 lg musibah menimpa...or, we come to find somebody nicer than her or him....will we still be loving her or him? At that moment of time, only the true love will remain unaffected....


So what is the true love?...hmm...cinta antara lelaki & perempuan itu tiada salahnya....selagi mana cinta itu dilayarkan pada bahtera yang telah diberi panduan oleh Allah & Rasulnya...Niat cinta itu yg pertama skali...mestilah kerana Allah...meaning that...we perceive love from Allah's point of view...a tauhidic-mind-set...ape yg Allah suke,tu yg jadi keutamaan kita, ape yg Allah larang, tu yg kite jauhi...kita selalu doa: Ya Allah, cintakanlah aku pd hamba-Mu yang melabuhkan cintanya pada-Mu.........


hmm..n then, when we come to find the right person, cinta yg nak dibina tu...must be ended dengan gerbang perkahwinan...huhu...maybe sounds too early for that....but if we have no tendency to end it with marriage, just forget it....it's a waste of time, money, air mata...etc...btul ni...kalo setakat cinta monyet, puppy love (sebut anak anjing kang marah pulak)...baik tak payah...tu sume cinta yg tak matang...once we are in love, be serious in it...bukanlah maksudnyer x boleh senyum langsung...but be serious in the sense that we have our ultimate aim...matlamat...nak membina baitul muslim...(keluarga islam)..baru la semuanya akan didasari dengan syariat yang tidak dilanggar, hati yg sentiasa akan dijaga drpd maksiat......cinta yg berteraskan nafsu..for example, because si 'dia' tu...cantik mcm batik or tampan mcm papan semata-mata, its no difference with the love between those animals yg ade dekat Orana Wild Life Park tu..(tiket masuk 14 dolar je)..... because once we 'get' it, kita akan bosan...n buang je mcm sampah...:Habis madu sepah dibuang:...


Cinta yang hakiki...cinta yang setiasa dipandu dengan aqidah, iman, syariat dan akhlak islam yg baik....jgn sampai cinta tu mengatasi keutamaan ke atas perkara2 yg lebih penting...for instance, study, kasih sayang pada ibu bapa n keluarga, kawan2 yg lain...and other important things to be listed.....and yg paling penting..jgn sampai cinta tu mengatasi CINTA kita kpd ALLAH...(cintakah kita?).....


Semasa bercinta tu....selalu kene ingat, Allah sentiasa melihat kita..(even setiap masa pun Allah tetap melihat kita)...sbb masa2 mcm ni lah...syaitan selalu memasang umpan...cucuk jarum...dari lirikan mata timbul bicara turun pula ke hati...huhu...imam ghazali pun kata...start ngan pandang2...then senyum2...mesej2...borak2....jumpa2...and akhirnya....(boleh pk sendiri kot)...so make sure ar...syariat tetap paling utama yg kene dijaga....barulah keberkatan tu ada....
OK...kalau kite boleh adapt dgn sifat2 Cinta sejati ni...maka persilakanlah dgn segala hormatnya utk bercinta....otherwise, pikir baik2 beb...


hmm..fitrah cinta itu suci....cintailah CINTA...kerana di situlah terbitnya rasa...peliharalah cinta, moga kita akan bertemu lagi di syurga-Nya...tempat mula-mula bersemi rasa cinta antara Adam & Hawa...


This is just a piece of remembrance for me, and for all my 'beloved friends' out there.....